The Fourth Amendment

Welcome back to Day Four of our series studying the Constitution, together. Today, we will cover the Fourth Amendment.

The Fourth Amendment states: The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no Warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by Oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized.

When I was in high school, my love for American government and politics was born from my Government class. I became obsessed with studying the Constitution when our teacher told us, “If you are ever pulled over for any reason, and a police officer asks if he can search your vehicle, you tell them, ‘Absolutely not, not without a warrant.’” I remember taking notes and wondering, “Why not? What do I have to hide?” So I asked my Government teacher that very question. He explained, “Without a warrant, he has no probable cause. What’s to stop him from planting something in your car? What’s to stop him from arresting you because of something someone else has in that vehicle? No. No one may search your car, your property, your home, without a warrant.”

That stuck with me.

Today, the Fourth Amendment is understood as placing limits on the government whenever it detains or searches a person or property.

So let’s break down the Fourth Amendment, bit by bit.

THE RIGHT OF THE PEOPLE TO BE SECURE IN THEIR PERSONS, HOUSES, PAPERS, AND EFFECTS, AGAINST UNREASONABLE SEARCHES AND SEIZURES, SHALL NOT BE VIOLATED, AND NO WARRANTS SHALL ISSUE, BUT UPON PROBABLE CAUSE, SUPPORTED BY OATH OR AFFIRMATION, AND PARTICULARLY DESCRIBING THE PLACE TO BE SEARCHED, AND THE PERSONS OR THINGS TO BE SEIZED.

This means in order to protect the people, law enforcement cannot simply grab your purse, your backpack, go through your house or car, without a warrant signed by a Judge. The Fourth Amendment usually comes during criminal prosecution in court. The Supreme Court has ruled that if police seize evidence as part of an illegal search, the evidence normally cannot be admitted into court. This is called the “exclusionary rule,” and it is controversial because in most cases evidence is being tossed out even though it shows the person is guilty, and as a result of the police conduct, they might avoid conviction. A famous judge and ultimately a Supreme Court Justice, Benjamin Cardoza said, “The criminal is to go free because the constable has blundered.” Another Supreme Court Justice, Louis Brandeis responded, “If the government becomes the lawbreaker, it breeds contempt for the law.”

This is why it is imperative for officers of the court to conduct everything by the book.

The Fourth Amendment protects against arbitrary arrests and is the basis of the law regarding search warrants, stop-and-frisk, safety inspections, wiretaps, and other forms of surveillance, as well as being central to many other criminal law topics and to privacy law.

If someone from law enforcement bangs on your door and demands entry, they can only do so with a warrant. A warrant that has been signed by a Judge.

The Third Amendment

Welcome back to Day Three of our series in which we study the Constitution together. Today, we will cover the Third Amendment.

The Third Amendment has really been a pretty boring one … until lately.

The Third Amendment states: No soldier shall, in time of peace be quartered in any house, without the consent of the Owner, nor in time of war, but in a manner to be prescribed by law.

Amendment Three to the Constitution was ratified on December 15, 1791. It forbids the housing of any military service member in private homes without the consent of the owner.

Let’s look at the Quartering Acts. In the years following the Revolutionary War, Congress attempted to establish laws preventing the abuses conducted by the British during the war. The Third Amendment was in response to the egregious application of the Quartering Acts, which required colonists to house and feed British soldiers against their will.

Recently, citizens have questioned whether or not the Third Amendment protects their businesses, as well. Do they have to house (hotels) and feed (restaurants) Federal employees? Suddenly, the “boring” amendment is being discussed by both individuals and individual business owners. One argument questions whether lower courts will rule in favor of these businesses, stating they are not under any obligation to house/rent and feed Federal employees, while others wonder if this could be discrimination.

The Third Amendment was meant to prohibit troops from taking rooms, not renting them out. On the one hand, hotels that have opted not to rent to certain Federal employees in order to provide peace to their other paying customers might be challenged. If they are pressured by the Federal government to rent/house employees, they could argue to the courts that the government costs them money from other paying customers.

From Courthouse News, “Though a Third Amendment argument against the federal government forcing a hotel to accommodate federal agents might be fraught, experts said there is something to be gleaned from the spirit of this little-remembered constitutional right—and how its historical interpretation as providing a right to privacy can be applied to the current moment.”

Is it a First Amendment case or a Third Amendment concern? It all depends on how this continues to unfold, with the understanding we have not been here … yet.

The Second Amendment

Welcome back to Day Two of our series, in which we study the Constitution together. Today, we will cover the Second Amendment.

The Second Amendment states: A well-regulated militia, being necessary to the security of a free state, the right of the people to keep and bear arms, shall not be infringed.

This Amendment is quoted incorrectly rather often, so let’s dig into it.

During the Constitutional Convention, the Framers understood the necessity of a citizen militia to resist a potentially oppressive military if constitutional order broke down. The Second Amendment codified (arranged laws) the individual right to firearm possession to combat this fear. Let us also interject here the phrase, “The Second Amendment is my God-given right.” This is also false. The Second Amendment is a Constitutional right, under the correct circumstances.

The Second Amendment does not, and never has, guaranteed a constitutional right for *every* individual American to own guns.

A WELL-REGULATED MILITIA refers to a government-organized force of citizen soldiers for the defense of the state, subject to a plan of organization, arms, and discipline.

The term “militia” often confuses people, so to break that down, it means a military force that is raised from the civil population to supplement a regular army in an emergency.

SECURITY OF A FREE STATE refers to security against invasion, insurrection, and civil unrest, for the protection of public liberty.

THE RIGHT OF THE PEOPLE – Under the system, “the people” has three meanings in the Constitution: “We the People of the United States,” the people of each state, or individuals. Which meaning is in use is determined by context. In the case of the people’s right to keep and bear arms, it means the people as a collective represented by state legislatures, that is, the States.

KEEP AND BEAR ARMS – Refers to maintaining and arming militia, kept in military readiness for public defense.

SHALL NOT BE INFRINGED – This is a term of art for protecting sovereign or public rights, in contrast to “abridged,” the term of art used in the First Amendment to protect individual or private rights.

At the time of the Bill of Rights, people were apprehensive and nervous about the new national government presented to them, so this helps explain the language and purpose of the Second Amendment. A huge national defense establishment has assumed the role of the militia of 200+ years ago. Americans have a right to defend their homes, and nothing should undermine this right. That said, there are some things we need to address.

In 2008, the Supreme Court listened to the District of Columbia v. Heller. (You can search this case, 554 U.S. 570). The Primary holding: Private citizens have the right under the Second Amendment to possess an ordinary type of weapon and use it for lawful, historically established situations such as self-defense in a home, even when there is no relationship to a local militia. Copied from Justia, U.S. Supreme Court, the case commentary, “This decision may have less dramatic an impact than some observers initially expected. It did lead to a surge of litigation in lower federal courts regarding gun control laws. Most of these lawsuits have failed, however, and states still have the right to prevent criminals, undocumented immigrants, drug addicts, and other high-risk groups from gaining access to weapons. Contrary to Justice Breyer's fears, the group of weapons that is deemed constitutional for individual use has not expanded to machine guns or other types of unconventional weapons. School zones and areas around federal buildings still can be subject to restrictions, and concealed carry laws as well as laws against straw purchases generally were left intact.”

In 2008, the Supreme Court ruled on the Second Amendment for the first time in almost 70 years after Dick Heller sued the District of Columbia over its ban on handguns in the home. The court ruled in Heller’s favor, affirming an individual right to keep handguns in the home for self-defense.

Since Heller, lower courts have upheld a wide range of gun laws as constitutional, including:

- Laws restricting the concealed and open carry of loaded guns in public.

- Bans on assault weapons, large capacity magazines, and silencers.

- Extreme risk protection orders and other prohibitions on dangerous people possessing guns.

- Firearm design safety standards.

- Safe storage requirements.

- Waiting period laws.

- Private-sale background checks and licensing laws.

If you search court cases or legal sites, you will read over and over how contentious a topic the Second Amendment is. Some people believe it provides an absolute right to own weapons, while others argue that its text limits the right to bear arms to purposes related to serving in a state militia. The Supreme Court issued very few opinions on the topic until 2008. Then it found the Heller case, as mentioned above.

So what was the original intent of the Second Amendment? Some historians argue that the primary reason was to prevent the need for the United States to have a professional standing army. Alexander Hamilton argued this point in the Federalist Papers. Others say the fear of a standing army is the reason for the Second Amendment protections. That is, they say the citizens’ right to bear arms served as a necessary check in case of a tyrannical government.

Regarding current-day conversations about carrying, and when and where you can carry, if a state allows for concealed carry, it is not illegal to be outside and carrying concealed. So if your state grants concealed carry (or even open carry), you are legally permitted to carry, assuming you do not fall under any of the exceptions listed above. You can search what your individual state laws are on the website of your state’s Attorney General’s office.

The First Amendment

Welcome to my series of studying the Constitution together! If you have known me for a hot minute, you know I love all things politics. I had a double major of Spanish and International Relations and a minor in Political Science. Last year, I took part in a class offered by Harvard entitled American Government: Constitutional Foundations. My ringtone is the theme song from The West Wing (my favorite show of all time). I tell you this to express my love for the Constitution and for what it stands.

Our Constitution is sometimes misunderstood, but there are so many resources available to help us understand, and apply it to our daily lives.

Many people with good intentions say, “Our founding fathers wanted this to be a Christian nation.” Don’t get me wrong, I would love for everyone to be a lover of Jesus. That said, the founding fathers never inserted God in the Constitution. In fact, Alexander Hamilton was asked why God had not been mentioned in the Constitution, and as legend goes, he responded, “We forgot!”

Every law must conform to the rules and guidelines of the Constitution. The first ten amendments to the Constitution are called the Bill of Rights, which is part of the Constitution. The Bill of Rights talks about individual rights.

Today, let’s start at the beginning, with the First Amendment.

The First Amendment: Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

Let’s break this down, bit by bit. There are “five pillars” of the First Amendment, and your rights to freedom of religion, speech, press, assembly, and petition. Let’s also keep in mind this very important factor: regardless of your immigration status, you have guaranteed rights under the Constitution. These five guaranteed freedoms make the people in the United States the freest in the world.

Ready? Let’s go!

Freedom of Religion: Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof. So, what does this mean? It means Congress is forbidden from promoting one religion over others and restricting an individual’s religious practices. This means if you are a Christian, you have the right and freedom to worship wherever you are. This also means if you are Jewish, Hindu, Muslim, Buddhist, Unitarian, Ethnic or Tribal religions, agnostic, or atheist … Congress cannot force you to believe the way they believe, or deny your ability to pursue your own religious beliefs.

Freedom of Speech: This guarantees freedom of expression by prohibiting Congress from restricting the press or the rights of individuals to speak freely. You have the right to articulate your thoughts, feelings, opinions, and ideas without interference, retaliation, or punishment from the government. There are a few narrow categories of speech not protected by the First Amendment, and those would be examples like child pornography, defamatory speech, hate speech, speech that violates intellectual property law, false advertising, threats, and fighting words or speech integral to criminal conduct. The example many people use is you have the freedom to say in a movie theater, “This movie sucks,” but you do not have the freedom to run into said theater and yell, “Fire!” when there is no fire. Freedom of speech means I can say I don’t like the way someone behaves, but I cannot slander them and make up lies about them to convince others not to like them.

Freedom of the Press: This guarantees the protected right to freely publish communications and expressions of opinions through various forms of media. Freedom of the press limits the government’s control or censorship over the media, except in the most severe national security risk potential. An example of that last statement would be if, say, for example, a reporter was tipped that President Obama was sending in Seal Team Six to capture Osama bin Laden, and they printed or reported that information. “Congress shall make no law … abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press,” means the government cannot control what the media publishes, nor can they punish journalists just because they posted/shared/reported something uncomfortable, controversial, or critical. An example of that would be “Let’s Go Brandon.” This statement was derived from an expletive, “F-You, Biden.” Although gross, unkind, and disrespectful to our former president, the speech was protected, as was the reporting of it. A free and independent press is a core principle of democracy. A free press helps maintain the balance of power in government.

Freedom of Assembly: Under the First Amendment, this means everyone has the right to protest and assemble, which again highlights essential components of democracy. The rights protected are to hold meetings, sit-ins, strikes, rallies, events, or protests, both online and offline. It ensures people can gather and meet, both publicly and privately. Assemblies can be platforms to advocate for change and for people to raise awareness about issues that matter to them. Some examples of protesting would be those who disagreed with the government mandating vaccines during the pandemic, and protested to voice their displeasure, as well as those who protested in recent weeks against ICE. I might not agree with your politics or what you wish to protest, but I support your right to protest, just as you might not agree with my political beliefs, but you should support my right to protest.

Freedom of Petition: This is for the purpose of petitioning Congress for a redress of grievances, or for anything else connected with the powers or the duties of the National Government. This freedom permits us to ask the government to address a need or concern through legislation and policies. You exercise the freedom of petition when you testify or speak at a public meeting at any level of the government, from local town halls or school board meetings, to speaking and petitioning Members of Congress or the president.

When I was in college, my favorite Political Science professor gave me my first pocket-sized Constitution. She pulled it out of her purse and said, “Aimee, every woman should be armed with two key things: a great shade of lipstick, and the Constitution. Knowledge is sexy. One day, you will be challenged about this, and as long as you study and know your Constitutional rights, you will be fine.”

Our Prayers Are A Battle Cry For Ukraine

The comparison of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego to watching Christians in Ukraine singing hymns, finding shelter for their neighbors, and continuing to praise God, is not lost on me.

Knowing they are refugees in their own country now, yet “this is our temporary home; our permanent home is with the Lord,” humbles me, greatly.

Daniel 3 is one of my favorite chapters in the Bible. Always has been. And the worship song, “Another in the Fire” by Hillsong United runs through my mind as I am crying and lamenting to God, for our brothers and sisters in Ukraine.

There but by the grace of God go you and I. As we sit in the comfort of our homes. Not fearing missiles, bullets, tanks or nuclear weapons being aimed at us. There but by the grace of God go you and I.

And I am angry. I am so angry. Downright pissed off that anyone would have the audacity to praise Vladimir Putin for anything. That anyone would blame

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Sometimes Being Right Isn't Right

Several years ago, Terry and I were dealing with what (at the time) seemed like an impossible situation to maneuver. When talking with my sister-friend Alice about it, she asked me, “Do you want peace or do you want to be right?” Trouble was, I wanted both.

Terry and I began our alarm praying from this ordeal. You see, every hour, I set an alarm to go off, and we would stop whatever we were doing, and pray together. Even if I

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That's A Wrap on 2021

My friend, there is tremendous healing from not carrying your burdens around. There is freedom in not hauling that heavy load into the new year. It’s okay if you don’t set it all down by January 1. It’s okay if you’re still lugging it into March. But let me tell you something … it is the greatest weight loss plan you will ever experience if you stop picking up that heavy luggage, and carrying it around in your daily life.

You will breathe better. You will smile more often. Your laugh will be lighter and more frequent. Your stomach will feel better. Your headaches will disappear. Your walk will be far more enjoyable. The song in your heart will carry over into the world around you.

It is okay to be angry. It is okay to be depressed. It is okay to grieve. It is okay to cry. It is okay to shout. It is okay to seek justice for the wicked and evil. There is a time for all of those emotions.

It is also okay to be at peace and be happy. It is okay to laugh. It is okay to live. It is okay to be joyful. It is okay to be quiet. It is okay to trust God to revenge the evil. There is a time for all of these emotions, too.

And happiness feels like the greatest weight loss

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It's Hard To Be Kind To Hateful People. Be Kind, Anyway

I failed Jesus again. And I had my own words to love others ringing fresh in my ears.

On a flight to Chicago, I was sandwiched between Terry on the aisle and a rather large woman next to the window. I am being gracious with the, “rather large” description. You could tell she was not at all thrilled to have someone sitting next to her. I was none too thrilled, either, since she took up half of my seat. To make matters worse, the air conditioning didn’t appear to be working on this flight, so it was extremely warm. Having half of her body weight over me certainly didn’t help. Still, I said hello, and once buckled and settled, offered her some of my hand sanitizer.

She declined.

When the flight attendant brought beverages, this woman’s arms would not have been able to reach over, due to her size. I took it from the short, male flight attendant, careful to cup and hold it by the bottom with her napkin, and handed it to her. I’ve done this on dozens of flights in the past few months and have never minded, one bit. Nor has anyone next to me minded. In fact, on the last flight, the woman seated next to me said to me, “my goodness, what great service! I owe you a big, fat tip!” and we both laughed.

This woman, however, took offense.

“I DID NOT WANT YOU AND YOUR NASTY GERM HANDS ALL UP IN MY DRINK.”

Keep in mind, I touched only the bottom of her cup, with the napkin touching the cup, itself, not my hand. But as she continued to squash me, I wondered

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What if our kindness was glue for this broken worLd?

I went through the longest Starbucks line the other morning, I can recall. When I got to the window, I asked the barista if that location is always this busy, or was it because of pumpkin spice? She said she hadn’t thought about it, but it could be the pumpkin.

They were slammed. So I said, “Well, you’re handling this really well for it to be so crazy!”

She replied, “thank you, but I feel really frazzled. Frazzled and … incomplete.”

I said, “I can understand that. But I know what would complete you!”

She looked at me, laughed and said, “Please tell me!”

Me, “Jesus. Just Jesus. He’s the only thing or person who will ever complete you.”

She told me, “I wish I could come out and hug you right now. Thank you for that. That’s what my mom would tell me. I needed that reminder so much. Thank you. You changed my perspective for today, and believe me, I needed it.”

For all I knew, she could have said, “Nope. I’m an atheist.” But instead, she needed a Jesus loving sister to just come by and say, “Hey. Jesus is your answer.”

She then said to me, “I’m really sorry you have had to wait so long!” I told her it wasn’t a problem and it gave me the opportunity to chat with her.

What she said next broke

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I'm So So Glad I Held My Baby So Often

When Michala was born, my mom told me how quickly her childhood would fly by. To hold her and rock her as much as she would let me. I took that advice to heart, and boy am I glad. My mom also told me to pray for her, every single day.

“I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” - 3 John 1:4 (NIV)

There’s a saying, “the days are long but the years are short.” Parents everywhere will attest to this. Sometimes I close my eyes and remember rocking my baby. Her Johnson’s Baby Wash smell. The way she nestled herself onto my shoulder, and let me rock her and sing, “Baby Mine.” The way she would reach for me in the middle of the night when she woke up crying, and sometimes just needed to be held and kissed by me.

I’m so glad I held her all those nights. I’m so glad I rocked her past falling asleep, and just whispered

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Jesus Won't Ask If I Protested. He Will Ask If I Loved

My sweet grandmother stopped watching the news as she got older. It depressed her greatly, she would tell us, and she would either change the channel, or tune it out, if someone else was watching. My dad would say to her, “But Mama, you need to be informed about what is going on in the world around you.”

I could see both of their points. My brother and I were raised to seek information. News. Education. My mom taught me when I was really little, “If you can lay your head down at night and have learned something new, it was a good day. But a day where nothing is learned, is wasted.”

I guess in a way, my dad saw my grandmother’s (his mother’s) refusal to watch the news as a form of throwing in the towel. Giving up on current events and knowledge. Defeat. But Grandmother was so tenderhearted, she really couldn’t stand the news. It broke her heart. It gave her bad dreams, and anxiety.

The other morning as Terry and I watched

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I Don't Want An Endless War. But We The Church Can't Turn Our Back On Afghanistan

A “popular” scripture I see on wall art in stores an awful lot is Micah 6:8.

“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” - Micah 6:8 (NIV)

I love this verse, and it would make my heart soar to see every Jesus lover across this globe, living this verse, myself included.

It is so hard, though. To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with our God.

When we break it down, I see just how many ways I fail my Heavenly Father, my Papa.

Bob Goff says we should be rivers not reservoirs with our love. That we shouldn’t bottle it up inside, but share it.

You and I are going to be challenged in the coming days, weeks and months, regarding our faith.

Democrats and Republicans are all aghast at

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"A Leader Without Followers"

I read former Speaker John Boehner’s book, On the House and enjoyed it so much, I read it again. Almost never will I read a book, twice. (I did with Love Does and Everybody Always, both by Bob Goff, but that’s it.)

Anyway, I have always admired and respected Speaker Boehner. In fact, selfishly I wish he were still the one leading the Republican Party. Maybe if he were, I would not be politically homeless right now. But I digress.

Speaker Boehner’s book is absolutely fascinating, and I devoured every page. If you are a political nerd like me, I highly recommend this book. If you even recall some of John Boehner’s time in Congress, I believe you would enjoy it as you already know the former Speaker does not mince words. He has a list of Boehnerisms that are both hilarious and deeply profound.

Something that always struck me about Speaker Boehner was how well he worked with both Republicans and Democrats. But if you read his book, you will find out there were many times he couldn’t even work with some of the “knuckleheads” (his word) within his own party, and had to go a different direction. As Christians, this happens to us, too. Sometimes people who are also believers or even members of our church or bible studies can say and do things so outrageous, we, too, have to go in a different direction.

One of my favorite sayings from Speaker Boehner’s book is, “A leader without followers is simply a man taking a walk.”

I loved this phrase so much and

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My Alligator Mouth

I struggle with my mouth. Not going to lie. I have managed to get myself into more trouble in my life because of my mouth. Our friend Tom (who is 87 years old) has a great saying. “His alligator mouth is about to overload his hummingbird butt.” This is so true for me. Sad, but true.

Too often, I have an alligator mouth.

I have an awful lot of opinions, and foolishly believe I need to share them.

I am 47 years old and it has taken me this

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The Protection We Need

I ordered a hand held mandoline slicer last month and read the suggestions to also use a knife glove, when using. I thought, “Psh. I’m 47 years old. I don’t need some stinkin’ glove to use a mandoline.” Turns out, the manufacturers were correct and I was wrong. I did, in fact, need a glove. The first time I used it, I found out just how very sharp it truly is! (I cut a chunk off of my right thumb). Later that night, I ordered the knife gloves. You are supposed to wear these gloves when using a sharp mandoline, sharp knives, shucking oysters, etc.

I cannot believe my smug arrogance. An extremely sharp blade on a mandoline slicer that came with a warning to use a protective glove, and I ignored it. I deserved that chunk of my thumb being cut off and the tingling sensation I still have from it. You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink.

I can’t help but see this as a reminder of how I get myself into dumb situations that clearly show I wasn’t wearing my protective gear.

You know the gear

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Running to Embrace the Tension

Years ago, one of my friends told me she wanted to start running, and asked if she could run with me? She told me she wanted to lose some weight and get into better shape and thought running would be good for her.

I told her I would be thrilled to have her join me. But shortly into our first run, I realized I wasn’t thrilled. She complained the whole time.

My friend wanted to run. She just wanted to run a tiny bit. The rest was too hard and painful, she said.

So I showed her some more stretches I thought would help her. I told her how important it was to hydrate before running. Then, maybe two weeks in, she asked if we could run to the donut shop? I told her yes, but that was a full three miles. She said, “I know! I’m fine with that. I’ll have something fun and delicious to look forward to, during our run.”

I reminded her, “Okay, but that also means three miles, back. So six miles, total. You up for that?”

She said, “No way,” and told

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In The Summer of 1993, I Wanted To Go To Columbia

In the summer of 1993, I wanted to be part of an internship program I saw advertised. The Department of State was looking for bilingual, political science students to work in Columbia. One of my political science professors wrote a letter of recommendation for me. I had to have two. So I went to my advisor who was one of my Spanish professors, and asked if he would write one?

He told me he would prefer to see a guy go to Columbia rather than me. I was so offended. “Why? My Spanish is good enough!” I replied.

“Aimee, it is very dangerous in Columbia right now. I just would not feel comfortable with you going. But if you talk to your parents, and they agree to it, I will write your second letter.”

Ha. Piece of cake. I was 19 years old, and didn’t really need for my parents to okay it, but I would still ask. (After all, my father was paying for my tuition).

I called my dad at his office

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Jesus, LOVE, LGBTQ

I have not made my politics secret to anyone. In fact, sometimes I am too much of an open book. Especially with my face and expressions.

But sometimes I wonder if I say enough? Because I hate confrontation. I mean, loathe it. I know sometimes confronting people is needed, and healthy, even. But I will often avoid talking to someone in order to avoid conflict.

Yet, we need to have some uncomfortable conversations in order for us all to grow and be better people.

I want to talk about what I see and hear regarding LGBTQ groups. Or better said, people.

No one in my family

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Healing My Heart

Hi all. It’s Sunday afternoon as I write this, and I am home, resting and recovering. Surgery went well, albeit there were a few complications. They found 80-90% blockage and put in a stent. I was sedated but not fully asleep at first. They started in my wrist, but were unable to get the stent through my arteries there, and then had to go in, through my groin.

The doctor came over to my side and said, “Aimee, (he had been calling me, “Mrs. Jackson” up until his point) this is very severe. You could easily have died

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